Wednesday, February 6, 2013

My Surgery Complications

I thought LONG and HARD about rather I would ever share this post.
Mainly because I know there will be individuals who feel the need to leave mean comments and snicker at my experience, but in the end I feel like sharing the experience to help others outweighs the malicious actions that may come.

As you all know I have a breast augmentation last October.
I should start out by saying I am still happy with the results and would have it over again in a heartbeat. I'm sharing this post to educate ladies who are considering this procedure of what COULD happen and to spread awareness on the possibilities of complications.

When you go to a consultation, any good doctor is going to explain the risks associated with this procedure. However, what they do AFTER they explain the risks is SELL you on their services. They are going to tell you that those complications are NOT common and in my case they are going to explain why I was the perfect candidate for the procedure.

Lets start with my history.

I was a 26 year old healthy woman with full A/small B breasts. My boobs were perfectly symmetrical (they measure you pre-op) which from I am told is VERY uncommon. Most women do not have perfectly even boobs. I have a history of hernias (muscle tearing) and get stretch marks easily. All of this was discussed in my consultation for the following reasons. 1. I did NOT want uneven boobs and 2. I did NOT want stretch marks on my boobs.

I was told by my surgeon that I was "the PERFECT candidate" because I had enough breast tissue to cover my implant and my boobs were symmetrical so he would simply put even implants in both breasts and that he would not have to even them out to make them symmetrical. He also assured me that women getting stretch marks from breast augmentation is VERY uncommon. The few cases that he had seen it in, were women who got huge impants (A to a DD). Your breast tissue naturally has elasticity to grow, therefore I should NOT have issues with this because I was not getting large implants and that worrying about this was a waste of my energy. PERFECT CANDIDATE.

Now lets talk post surgery.

Immediately following surgery I was convinced my right breast was bigger than my left. I voiced this at my post-op appointment and was reassured that this was only the case because I am right handed and that I was using that arm more, which would cause it to be slightly more swollen.

Around 1 month post-op, the swelling was finally gone and I could see what my actual breast size was. My implants were the same size and all right in the world! No stretch marks, everything was fabulous. I was now just waiting for them to drop into place.

{Even but the implants were still very high so the nipples are low on the beast}


2 months post-op was when my initial issues began. I noticed about a week before my 2 month visit that my left breast was falling into place and that my right one was not. Obviously, this meant that my boobs were uneven and looked lopsided. I had one breast that was clearly farther down which made the nipple placements uneven and to be honest, look pretty goofy. Being a woman who had perfectly symmetrical breast her whole life, I flipped shit. There was crying. There were many discussions about boobs and there were was WAY too much time spent in front of the mirror. As you can imagine I was devastated at the fact that I paid someone to ruin my boobs. They may have been bigger, BUT they were LOPSIDED!

{The left moved into place so the nipple placement is normal, but the right stayed high leaving the nipple at the bootom of the breast. Lopsided}


At my 2 month visit, I voiced my concerns to my doctor who to my surprised agreed with everything I said. He said they were in fact uneven. The left had clearly dropped and that the right had not. He then explained that I had formed scar tissue under the right breast at the incision and had not under the left. This was why I was experiencing this. Makes sense, but I wasn't looking for an explanation I was looking for a fix. He then told me that this could be fixed with a simple surgery where he would cut through the scar tissue and lower the implant. Another surgery? Not something I wanted. So he gave me breast massaging exercises to preform only on my right breast hoping to stretch the scar tissue and move the implant down into place.

For the next 4 weeks my roommate (bless her heart) and Chris got to wonderful job of pushing on my boob twice a day, every day, hoping to help it fall. TALK ABOUT HURT. It was not a pleasant experience for anyone involved. After about a month of this, I began to notice 3 tiny pink marks under my skin. I'm no stranger to stretch marks so immediately I KNEW that the "massaging" aka boob pushing was tearing my tissue and creating stretch marks. I immediate stopped all massaging and took my happy ass back to the doctor.

At that point I'm pretty sure I became his most dreaded patient. I was always VERY nice to him because lets be honest he isn't God and my mother put that into perspective very early on. He had no way of controlling what my body was doing and he was my only lifeline to fixing this mess. I think he wanted everything to work out as badly as I did and all my post-op appointments were free, so he wasn't making a dime on seeing so often.

We discovered at this appointment, that my breast had in fact developed 3 tiny stretch marks. It is most common for this to occur shortly after surgery, NOT 3 months later which left him speechless. They were TINY and barely noticeable, but none the less, they were there. Thankfully, I noticed them quickly and was able to begin applying cream to prevent spreading and before they actually penetrated the top layer of skin. The good news from this appointment was that my right breast had in fact began to drop and my unevenness was finally evening out.

{ Finally even with normal nipple placement, but you can still see the 3 pink lines near my nip. Thankfully you cannot see them in a swimsuit!}


We agreed then to give the healing process time to work itself out and that I would follow up at 6 months to see where I stood then.

Present Day - 5 Months Post-Op.

My breast have finally completely settled into place and are no longer uneven. Thank Jesus! I do still have slight pinkness from the tiny stretch marks, but they are slowly turning white and have not gotten worse. All in all, I am VERY happy that these issues worked themselves out. I say that I would do it all over again and I genuinely think I would, but this may be because I cannot change this decision and I'm an optimist who chooses to look at the good rather than regret!

My whole reasoning for sharing this is to try to make women understand that plastic surgeons are NOT God. Even the BEST surgeons cannot GUARANTEE an outcome because your body can react in ways that they are unable to control. I feel LUCKY to have only had small problems with my surgery and I was "the PERFECT candidate".

I also want to stress that your expectations need to be realistic. Just because you do your research and pay thousands of dollars does NOT mean you will feel "perfect" with your results. After this experience, I look at plastic surgery differently. I have discouraged friends from altering their faces via nose job, over and over again. I was lucky enough to walk away with beautiful boobs that look perfect in a swimsuit and to have a boyfriend who could can less about tiny pink marks that will fade away. Your face is a whole other story. You can't cover in up with a bikini top or clothing!


I guess my final thought regarding the topic is... If you believe the risk is worth a WORSE version of your current problem, then go for it. Because in the event that your body doesn't agree or something goes wrong in surgery, you do have to live with whatever results you end up with. Surgery is NOT a guarantee and as a patient you need to fully understand this! A surgeron can sell his services but he cannot GUARANTEE the outcome.

I hope this spreads an honest light on what CAN happen via plastic surgery. In many cases everything goes perfectly and I hope that is/was the case in any of yours, but it can also go wrong. You can have unexpect complications and result and this needs to be something you understand and are prepared to live with!



46 comments:

  1. I had the same surgery last August and have not made it public for personal reasons...maybe someday:) One of mine dropped before the other and it was somewhat painful, the muscle on top of the implant held it in and it pulled awkwardly. THANKFULLY it all fell into place (no pun intended!) and I am so happy with the results. Good for you for sharing your story. This is a bug surgery and it takes times for everything to work out the way it should.

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  2. Kristen, this post makes me love you more. I know how hard it is to share something so personal on your blog...and I admire you for it! I hope this post helps someone who is considering surgery! xoxo

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  3. Thank you for sharing this. It's not easy posting such personal information out there, but I think there are lots of people who can benefit from your share.
    *hugs*
    Jenn @ Going the Distance

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    1. Thank you for sharing this! I'm sure it was a very hard decision. I appreciate the honest information you provided. The surgery is something I've considered from time to time - and now it's on the backburner until the hubby and I figure out whether or not we are going to have kids. Thanks again for sharing and have a great Wednesday!

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  5. Bless your heart. I had a similar problem with my surgery. They actually gave me a band to help push them down that I had to wear at night. Now you'd never even be able to tell I've had the surgery. So glad you had an understanding doctor too.

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  6. Glad they are all settled and you are happy with them! Don't let others bring you down! Thanks for sharing! This is a great way to look at surgery and from you, someone who personally went through it, it is a great story to hear!

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  7. Good for you for sharing girl! I'm sure that wasn't easy! I'm sorry that the experience didn't go perfectly, but you have an amazing attitude and outlook and your boobs look GREAT! xoxox.

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  8. Thank you for this! I would love, love, love to get a breast augmentation but I haven't heard things like this. It is awesome that you are putting what really happens/could happen post op. You only hear the good things or the horror stories, not the real stuff.

    Thank you!

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  9. Thanks for sharing! I'm getting mine done this coming Tuesday. If you dont mind me asking (and maybe you have already said this in another post) what size did you go with? Our pre op breasts are about the same size so I was just curious! :)

    Thinking about all of it makes me freak out but I think the reward out weighs the risk.

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    1. Hi Lisa,

      I went from a small B to a small D. 375CCs. Very happy with the size! They arent too big!

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  10. How brave of you to share this! I know it was a tough decision but I think many women will be put at ease reading that they are not alone in their surgery complications. You rock girlfriend!

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  11. I had a breast reduction when I was twenty and though I am happy I did it, I wished I had waited till after having kids because they are not the same! After my procedure I wasn't told about the stretch marks and the scarring that occur and of course it happens to me. I also don't think I was told about everything and the changes that could happen afterwards and going through mommy hood.

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  12. I am so glad you shared this! I have been thinking recently about having something done to mine. I am glad I can read what someone else has went through! Looking online I've only read the people who really love it (those that sound like they are getting paid) or the horror stories. I am glad you put a real perspective out there! They look great by the way!

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    1. I think it is most common to hear horror stories or perfection stories. It was not until after I had this experience and shared it with people that I began to hear what REALLY happened to them. So many women have told me that their boobs settled in at different times and I had NEVER heard this before it happened to me. I'll be honest, I think its kind of embarassing/difficult to have to admit that you paid thousands of dollars and didnt have the "perfect experience". People want to be THRILLED with their results. They dont want to admit their experience was difficult. I think this is why you only hear the really bad and the really good.

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  13. Thanks for sharing! I'm so glad everything worked itself out and "fell into place". I know I'd be super upset, but patience is not one of my virtues lol. I go back and forth all the time about getting implants. I would definitely benefit from them, but am deathly scared of the surgery and recovery.

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  14. Thanks for sharing this! I think it is important that other girls know the risks and also, it is so much more real coming from someone who has just gone through a surgery like this. I'm so glad you are happy with the results now! They do look pretty darn good!

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  15. Glad they settled in they look perfect to me! :)

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  16. I'm so proud of you for being honest about your experience! And I'm so sorry you had to deal with that! But they look amazing now! :)

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  17. Way to stay on top of your own health though. So many women don't do that, they trust their doctor and never go against what they say and stand up for themselves! Way to go!

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  18. Thank you for sharing this. They look amazing now!

    I don't know how this works whatsoever after breast augmentation but you could try Bio Oil for the stretch marks. My doctor switched my birth control two years ago after I ended up in the hospital with anemia and my boobs grew almost a cup size in a very short time and I had stretch marks on each side. Someone just told me about Bio Oil about six months ago and I've been using it everyday and have already seen a difference.

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    1. I've just learned about Bio Oil! Its on the my shopping list! Thanks for sharing!

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  19. Wow! I'm so sorry you had to go through all of this. I would have been a nut case! At least you remained optimistic and it looks like all is well in the end!! :)

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  20. Thanks for sharing!! I think they look fabbb!! if anyone leaves a mean comment we'll beat them up!! xox

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  21. Hi Kristin! to start with, I am surprised that you dont get stretch marks usually with implants. I naturally went from an A cup to a C cup in like one year (yay being 13!). I am now a D cup (dear lord). I definitely got stretch marks like crazy from all that growth!

    Good news- they totally fade. My boobs are great now. So hopefully your little ones will fade over the next couple years and you will 100% love them boobies!

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  22. I had a breast augmentation in 2007 and I had zero complications and am still happy with my results today. I think too many women go into surgery thinking that they will have perfect breasts, but the truth is that your own anatomy limits your results. If you have far apart breasts before surgery, they will be that way when they are larger, too, for example.

    Given serious breast implant complications like capsular contracture, symmastia and bottoming out, I would say you had a great experience. It can take up to a year for some people's implants to settle and even out. My surgeon told me it could take 6 months or more for my implants to drop and settle into place. Glad you're happy with your results, they look great!

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    1. I would hardly say that my experience was "great" for the reasons listed in this post! Crying your eyes out for weeks isn't very "great". With that said, I think this in 100% because my expectations were too high in the beginning, which is my reasoning for writing this post. I think if women have a better understanding of the healing process and more realistic expectations they may be able to skip the agony I put myself through.

      I am completely aware that my complictions are MINOR and I am very thankful that I didnt have MAJOR complications. My post was never meant to slam breast augmentations which is why I stated in the beginning that I love my new breasts. It simply was meant to make women understand that surgeons arent God and that expectations NEED to be realistic. I feel that in general, you only hear really bad stories and perfect stories and I believe most people fall in the middle. I am trying to give insight into the "middle" category!

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  23. Girl, I'm so jealous of your boobs! They look so cute. I've never been of a fan of augmentation, but I knew nothing about it. But yours are PRETTY.

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  24. I really appreciate you sharing this!! I think your tatas look amazing! I've considered getting an augmentation also, but my mom begged me to wait until after I have kids (apparently she was super flat-chested too until she had children). It's helpful to know experiences from people who have already gone through something!

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  25. The complications terrify me, but your boobs really do look great! Something I'll have to think on in the future, because I am so scared of any complications!

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  26. I think its awesome that you have opened and told other women about your experience. I too, have had the surgery and there is a lot of thought that must go into that decision. I was wondering if you were sent home with massaging exercises immediately after surgery? I was sent home from the surgery day with directions on that and i was told that this would prevent exactly what happened to you. It must have helped b/c i never had to deal with that problem. Did they not do that for you?

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    1. My surgeon had me wait 2 weeks until I began massages. I dont think I couldve touched them they day after! The pain was a little intense then!

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  27. Hey love. Wasn't sure if you answered this before...but how many CCs did you get, saline or silicone, under or over the muscle? Obvi I'm doing research. Lol

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    1. Hey love!

      I got 375CC, saline, under the muscle!!

      Call me. I can tellyou everything you need to know! I did a LOT of research before so I know a lot about the options!

      LOVE YOU!

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  29. I've been really wanting implants but I don't think my body would be a "perfect" candidate.. I get really really nervous thinking about what could go wrong... That could be a sign.. Did you have to really talk yourself into having surgery? I'd do anything for cute boobies like yours !

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    1. No not at all. I always knew I wanted them. I have very high pain tolerance and recover fairly quickly from surgery so I wasnt scared of it at all and knowing I would have boobs made it all worthwhile. There was zero convincing on my part. It was me convincing everyone else that it was the right idea!

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  30. Love your honesty!! I don't know if I would have the balls to share all that. You go girl! I think it's great for women to be able to read those in between experiences that people rarely share. I had a minor complication with a drain tube and it was hell. Your boobies look smokin hott!!!!

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  31. Your boobs look great! My mom had a boob job last year. My uncle is a plastic surgeon and lives in Lubbock. He has done two of my aunts. My moms boobs turned out great but she had an extremely painful experience. She had to take muscle relaxers for a month following the surgery and still was in pain 2 months afterwards. I think everyone's bodies react differently. Surgery can be scary! But bigger boobs are worth it in my opinion! :) I plan to have them done after kids. They will probably nasty then anyways! hehe

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  32. You are so brave & inspiring for sharing this. I'm 23 & my 12 year old sisters have bigger boobs than me. I barley fill an A cup. I've never admitted this before -- but this is something I would LOVE to do one day.

    Thanks for sharing your experience :)

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  33. What a brave post. Thanks for sharing your experiences - I'd never even thought of issues like lopsidedness or stretch marks - it just shows that there's so many little things to take into consideration.

    And without being creepy, your new boobs look great! I'm glad everything went, for the most part, well for you.

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  34. Hi Kristen - Kudos to you for sharing this blog post with all of us. I completely agree with what you have to say about plastic surgery. I once had a procedure and it had to be revised because my body's reaction to it was completely unexpected but in the end, everything turned out a-ok.

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  35. Women who have the guts to share these kind of stories are attractive. They're so proud of their body that they even share details about the complications. Not everything will go smoothly, but just believe and don't stress out. Congratulations on getting the breasts you've always wanted!

    Marc Bryan

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  36. I'm really glad that your corrective surgery went well or else that would be so devastating! Your bosoms look a lot better now than the one on the photo. It'll be really awkward to have the other boob be a bit higher than the other one. Anyway, I'm so happy for you! You get to enjoy your new set of boobs! Shavonda Duarte

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  37. I don't get why you think people will snicker and be mean to you by posting this. I'm actually thankful that you did. There are ladies out there who would jump at the first chance they got for breast surgery without even thinking about the repercussions. Improving your physical image is fine as long as you are fully knowledgeable and ready about what you are about to do.

    Terry Bayer

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